tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4205229672932956280.post656167831213613373..comments2024-03-20T12:49:03.109-05:00Comments on The Privileged Infertile: HonestlyBug's Mommahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14308634897232165414noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4205229672932956280.post-77577118816401045592009-10-08T11:08:07.148-05:002009-10-08T11:08:07.148-05:00I totally understand. My brother found out he and...I totally understand. My brother found out he and his wife were expecting the week I found out I had PCOS. My journey with infertility has run parrallel to their pregnancy. The birth of their daughter (my niece) was the hardest day yet. I was the only one at the hospital for the birth. I made myself go the following day but was very stand offish and didn't even hold her. My brother and his wife didn't even want a kid and here I was trying my guts out. It's still hard to see my niece, I have held her a few times since then but the hardest times are when they are gushing over how great she is, I can't even make eye contact. it's paintful, your feelings are totally just.Amber Chttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09018361388875043216noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4205229672932956280.post-48582500938591912982009-10-07T14:08:38.208-05:002009-10-07T14:08:38.208-05:00WTG for saying that to her! And, yes, I wish they...WTG for saying that to her! And, yes, I wish they could plan around us! :-) Seriously, though, the comment will help her understand a bit more about what you're going through if they do make it there before you (but, they won't)! ;-) I can say that it SUCKS to have your closest friends get to their BFP with barely a try while it takes everything you've got and still no BFP. But, it's taught me a lot about myself and them, too. And, I'm thrilled for them despite all of that.<br /><br />But, you're not going to have to worry about it, because your BFP is right around the corner! :-)Linhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17203780431443748216noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4205229672932956280.post-31247827034401084502009-10-05T10:22:03.604-05:002009-10-05T10:22:03.604-05:00Don't you just wish they *could* plan it aroun...Don't you just wish they *could* plan it around you???!! That would be so nice :). Like "I started first, so you just have to wait!" heheJenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01757739485654785696noreply@blogger.com